Our Confidants
I Be Here For You is more than just a Confidant Service. Confidants here are real people just like you who are friends who prioritize a listening ear alongside quality communication through email conversation. Our Confidants are equipped with the skills and training to provide compassionate listening and support to those who need it. They will share their stories, advice, and even some funny moments that will help you feel less alone, inspired, and empowered. Choose your Confidant today.
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Confidante
Debbie
God-the true Confidant. Knowing God is there and Knowing God are two different things. Once upon a time, about 30 years ago, I was a “Domesticated Engineer” aka Mother and Wife. Raising children, baking bread and trying to be the “perfect” Mother and Wife; I was doing good. That lasted 8 years. Then, I became depressed, lost, and weak. Instead of clinging to God for strength and guidance, who I knew was there. I ran. Firstly, I separated from my husband and slowly from my children. Moving to a life full of unbearable sin. My new life included a 20-year prisoner who got out of jail and moved in with my innocent babies, and a very messed up version of me. After a 5 year toxic relationship with him, I ran to drugs and prostitution.
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My children were badly damaged and my life was falling apart. Three months into starting serious drugs, I had no rent money to shelter my babies, no food to feed them, no love left in me to give and I was broken, beat down and the weakest I have ever felt. Until, one special morning I woke up and started walking around my block, looking up at the sky, thinking and crying out, “God, you left me, you forgot about me!” That very day, someone at my sister’s work asked how I was doing. After work, she found out Quickly, after that, maybe a week later, my children and I were in a new home, safe and with a new start.
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God didn’t forget about me or leave me; I just stopped talking to Him. He was actually waiting to hear from me because He has plans for me. I just didn’t know what it was at the time. From then on, I started growing closer to the Lord every day. Talking to Him every moment of every day and an amazing and powerful experience of the Holy Spirit happened. When I begged God to forgive me for what I had done to my sweet babies, Husband and myself, and to please come into my life and stay, the Holy Spirit Filled my body. The feeling was a physical lightness and tingling all over my body. My arms began to rise, and I was in shock, amazement, and awe with the overwhelming feeling of peace and love. I stopped using drugs cold turkey with 2 mishaps. The second one was with someone who was using for 30-plus years and said he had never seen anyone throw up. I believe it was because I was filled with the Holy Spirit and the drug was rejected for me. Thank you, Jesus.
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From there my life took another turn. Struggling with low self-esteem from the sexual abuse in my childhood, I spent the next 5 years looking for love. Not knowing my Heavenly Father’s love is the only love I needed. He slowly worked with my heart and healed me from the pain I was in emotionally. Cleaned my mind, filled me with love and patience, and placed a dire in my heart to serve Him. That was in 2013. I have grown so much since then and God continues to help me repair the damage I caused to my children. Living life with God was the best choice I made because God is good.
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If you ever just feel like talking with someone through email, let me be a Confidant for you-It's why I be here for you.
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Confidante
Maria
"Hi, I'm Maria, and I truly feel honored when people confide in me. I consider myself to be kind, open-minded, empathetic to others' needs, and most of all friendly. ​I would love to be a soundboard for you to express yourself and give you the attention you deserve in this safe place to be heard. If there is something on your mind, let's chat about it."
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At I Be Here For You, we are dedicated to providing a safe and supportive environment for those seeking a Confidant by offering a listening ear and compassionate support whenever you need it. We understand the importance of privacy - that is why some of our Confidants choose not to share their pictures. Discretion is one of the key benefits of our service, allowing you to express yourself freely without judgment. Trust us to be here for you.